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so….when it's really HOT.     and your mind  has gone kinda blank.   you have yet to acclimate.   Not wanting to spend yet another day staring into the Trees,       ok, then     finish making the pillow case.    from that twin sheet you'd gotten at the Socorro Thrift Shop ,  N. Mex  a million years ago,  that you have loved for so long,  that finally ripped up the middle  and it's FINISHED and

it's Beauty Full.

a pillow case.  Joy,  sitting,  feet in the Spa pool,  stitchiing,  stiching  backstitch as Jude taught.   This.

then….phone.   it's Giana,  my son's daughter, 9 years old in Denver Colorado.  Saying she has two questions.     First,  her mother got her writing paper.   I listen….writing paper…..    she says there are 4 designs.   and begins to describe them and i understand that her mother got her

stationery.   3 are flowers and then the last…something about poppy seeds…???????  i don't quite understand,  but i tell her how when i got sent to live with my Aunt when i was Six,  i was miserable.  Didn't much like that Aunt,    i was so  miserable she would make me Poppy Seed Cake to cheer me up and i LOVED poppy seed cake ,  so, i chose the design having something to do with Poppy Seeds???????   OK she says,   pragmatically wanting to move along to the second question which is….what address would i like to receive mail at?     The questions taken care of we move along to chit chat…her taking Sailing lessons,  i read this on Face Book,  she tells  how she prevented her boat from capsize, how she is NOT looking forward to 5th grade…too much homework….and i say some stuff about her father,  when he was in school….and say….for some reason,   well….he was always Cheerful,   and she responded    I honestly think  he's too cheerful.   I said huh? and she said they were playing some game and he somehow threw a book and hit her in the head and  he was cheerful….and i said well,  yeah,   he can be.   too cheerful.  i guess.

i love

kids. 

now…unlike when i was six or 9,   now,    how  they freely have thoughts and opinions and express them and you can have a conversation,  mutual     

and i ended up telling her that one of the best things about writing letters,  affixing the stamps on the envelopes and

MAILING

is that you then have to 

wait.

and   it seems forever, and sometimes you even forget…..but then      there's the day that there is an envelope in the mailbox.  Your name,  your address.   the marks of cancelled stamps.   and you open it.    and    read.    And  there the person IS.  on the piece of paper   that you get to hold.   Sometimes tuck into a book or something.    to find years and years and years later

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21 responses to “simple pleasures”

  1. jude Avatar

    That is one sweet pillow case, the sweet dreams kind.

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  2. Deb G Avatar

    Your pillow is beautiful. And you are right, getting real mail is something special. 🙂

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  3. Liz A Avatar

    the kind of sheet that feels cool … the kind you can no longer buy for love or money … so perfect for a pillow cover
    I had striped stationery once upon a time … wrote letters home to my parents when I was staying with my grandparents … and then read them years later and relived the golden days of a childhood summer

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  4. CatherinE Avatar

    How brilliant, a pillow case from a sheet! I was just noticing one of my sheets is almost worn through in the center. I really love the conversation you had with your Giana.

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  5. Deb Avatar

    Don’t forget to drape a square of wet damask around your neck. I would be down in the creek and you couldn’t tempt me out with food. The give and take on paper~ delicious to learn anticipation. patience.

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  6. Nancy Avatar

    A lovely, summer pillowcase indeed! Just by looking, you can tell that it is ‘old’ sheet, soft and cool…the best.
    Great granddaughter chat. You’ve reminded me of when my children were school age and were “pen pals” with my parents. My son’s conversation was almost exclusively about when my dad was in the Navy and baseball! haha
    I think it’s wonderful that a young one wants to write a ‘real’ letter these days. Snail mail does what other forms of communication can not.

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  7. Tina Avatar
    Tina

    I wish they still made cotton the old way .. have no idea what the old way was or the new way is but it is totally different. As different as writing and sending letters and sending an email. Hah!!

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  8. Deb VZ Avatar
    Deb VZ

    I have a good friend who doesn’t live too far from me but there never seems to be an opportunity to meet in person. But she sends cards, always with a note and I’ve decided that I can send cards with notes too. Because you are right Grace, it is such a gift to find her card in my mailbox…to save them and reread them. To be reminded that someone is thinking of me and cares enough to stay in touch.

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  9. grace Forrest Avatar

    oh….oh…..it IS. the dreams, tho, well….they are what they are. But the Pillow Case IS what it IS.

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  10. grace Forrest Avatar

    thinking a lot about that today….from my perspective and from her’s
    What is she wondering??????
    She is as we all are….a certain being….with certain
    energy

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  11. grace Forrest Avatar

    for love or money i love this….haven’t heard/seen this expression in forever, but it is so so perfect for its use here
    if only i could make my way to that thrift shop in Socorro,NM La Tienda Segunda….weekly…. i would have
    SHEETS
    i had a long long love affair with stationery, fountain pens, ink in bottles

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  12. grace Forrest Avatar

    how they wear in the center….over time, there is no escape. But this…because pillow cases are even harder than sheets to find
    my kids refer to “her sheets” as the sand paper sheets…
    anything less creeps me out. But i only have a few left

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  13. grace Forrest Avatar

    that conversation….she was the driver….knowing exactly where she wanted to go, knowing exactly how to get us there…i wish so so much that Denver Colorado was just down the road

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  14. grace Forrest Avatar

    the creek…the banks are steep, iike everything here, steep
    there’s no “shore”. and Tay. i miss Tay. She was my Other.
    i am hoping she finds this to be true

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  15. grace Forrest Avatar

    i love that her Mother set this all into motion
    I have sent her things in the past…i guess “card” type things…this is different…it’s a
    letter

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  16. grace Forrest Avatar

    THIS is absolutely
    TRUE

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  17. grace Forrest Avatar

    i love this Deb…
    i find cards and letters in books from my friend Wendy who has
    died some years ago…but when i come across them, she’s no longer
    gone, just away somewhere…the letter/card holds Her…who she IS.
    IS.

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  18. Hazel Avatar

    I can’t tell you how much I LOVE this post. The conversation, stationary, pillowcase… I still have my childhood soft sheet, so thin it tears without scissors- use bits of it now and then in pieces, but the softness holds so many memories.

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  19. Nancy Avatar

    I feel like that about flannel too.

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  20. Patty Avatar

    I recently found a big box of mom’s letters to me when I lived in san Diego
    almost 50 years ago. It was amazing to hear her voice in my head/heart when she’s no longer here.
    Falling asleep is a great pleasure for me. In my dreams all things are possible. When I saw the pillow this was my thought.

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  21. Laura Avatar
    Laura

    Giana reached out to you. Asked questions. How WONDERFUL is that? How wonderful is THAT?

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