what i think i can say with all confidence is that the moment of Death is Gentle.  We are taken back by What gave us.

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59 responses to “Old Cowboy is Gone”

  1. grace Avatar

    yes. just like that. soft. small. simple. just like that…
    oh

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  2. Kristin Avatar
    Kristin

    a soft, quiet passing. so many stories and memories remain.

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  3. grace Avatar

    yes.
    the stories, the memories, they Inform humanity, one by one.
    What it is to Be, however it is we Be and what it is to Leave
    yes.
    so soft. soft. soft.

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  4. Marti Avatar
    Marti

    Robert has gone onto other trails now and you gave him the very thing that you wished you could give him to “free his heart a little” – you made it possible for him to leave as he wished, from his home. Dear OCB, dear You for staying by his side through the whole of it…love and condolences.

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  5. Mo Crow Avatar

    Fly Free Old Cowboy

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  7. Liz Avatar

    Gentle … what a gift was given and received

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  8. Michelle in NYC Avatar

    Ah…softly…Hug to you. Buddhist, Venerable Tarpa shares the poem “When Death Comes” by Mary Oliver. She highlights her favourite line from the poem and elaborates on how it helps her to get some feeling of the “mere I,” and how it is different from the puffed-up conception of an inherently existent self. https://youtu.be/pa-VIYKUfR0

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  9. carole Avatar
    carole

    Oh Grace, I have goose bumps ,an aooh came from my mouth when I read your words..take care, all will be well now ,thinking of you
    Love and Blessings xo

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  10. Stephanie Avatar
    Stephanie

    Keeping you both in my heart tonight, Grace, very thankful for the gentle going and for your steadfast heart.

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  11. handstories Avatar

    peace…to him, to you, to all of us.

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  12. Cindy from Georgia Avatar
    Cindy from Georgia

    Our hearts are all touched. Much love, Cindy

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  13. Judith in N. CA Avatar
    Judith in N. CA

    Well done, OCB….well done, Grace. sending love

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  14. judykeathley@cox.net Avatar
    judykeathley@cox.net

    dear grace —
    i don’t know what to say–
    but i need to say something —
    if only
    that i don’t know what
    to say
    your own life ….
    now changed
    out breath

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  15. deb lacativa Avatar

    I wonder if he knew how many of us have been holding our breath, urging him on, cheering his stubborn old ass across the finish line.

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  16. summertimes Avatar

    I also don’t have words but lots of thoughts going to both of you

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  17. Nancy Avatar

    Here reading, sending thoughts.

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  18. NancyK Avatar

    The Old Cowboy met the Buddha through Grace

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  19. carole Avatar
    carole

    oh Deb that is wonderful 🙂 xo

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  20. Micael Avatar
    Micael

    He was lucky to have you.

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  21. linda morris Avatar
    linda morris

    rest in peace old cowboy.

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  22. helen Avatar
    helen

    Thinking much of you both today. You gave a wonderful gift, Grace.

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  23. ² Avatar
    ²

    material changing
    release missing custom
    nothing as usual a new start
    a lot of words toughts if
    a love one go back to
    the otherside of life/live
    love is all a round
    surrender

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  24. Nanette Avatar

    Aah ..ooh. Journey well OCB, journey well Grace. love

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  25. .cynthia Avatar
    .cynthia

    oh exactly..good to smile right here..right now ..gentle day grace

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  26. Dana Avatar

    I am feeling the flat, blank absence of a man I never met, except through you. Peace be upon you both.

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  27. beth Avatar

    ((( Grace ))) I’m so glad you made it back to windthread before.

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  28. Els Avatar

    just one simple line
    but a world coming to an end

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  29. elizabeth Avatar
    elizabeth

    Blessings…Keeping you in my thoughts…

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  30. grace Avatar

    yes. in his own home. We DID it. A natural death, in his own
    home. Yes. We did it. Even tho he became so afraid at the end.,
    we Did it. and it was right and good.

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  31. grace Avatar

    fly free…the Spirit, fly free

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  32. grace Avatar

    for sure now, i know, it’s Gentle

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  33. grace Avatar

    so mutual, yes
    for both of us

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  34. grace Avatar

    beauty FULL Mary Oliver, just so so incredibly BEAUTY Full
    Mary Oliver

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  35. grace Avatar

    all IS well, it is. The gentleness, the softness, it IS and
    it is Very Very well

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  36. grace Avatar

    steadfastness. i think much of this…the steadfastness on both
    our parts…the steadfastness of his Need, the response of
    Steadfastness in response…we were parts of the Same, he and I

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  37. grace Avatar

    peace. letting go. peace. to know this ahead…..

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  38. grace Avatar

    this is good then, that we Learn from eachother, and
    know better how to just go

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  39. grace Avatar

    i loved reading that this morning…Well done
    yes. Well Done, both of us. So MUCH, yes, Well Done.

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  40. grace Avatar

    yes. Learned, i am learned. He taught me.

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  41. grace Avatar

    oh so a huge SMILE….cheering him….yes…cheering him, i wish he might have known

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  42. grace Avatar

    thoughts are solid and good offerings

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  43. grace Avatar

    thank you, Much….

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  44. grace Avatar

    we meet the Buddha daily, don’t we……………

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  45. grace Avatar

    today i am thinking i was Lucky to have had him

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  46. grace Avatar

    yes. bless him, his old skeletal self. He was barely there
    yesterday, like really, barely there. Washing him was
    really Something

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  47. grace Avatar

    helen, i am receiving a wonderful gift…it is ongoing….

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  48. grace Avatar

    surrender
    you have the word
    surrender

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  49. grace Avatar

    yes…him….his journey….whatever it is….my love is with him

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  50. grace Avatar

    i am too. Our Timing with so much has been incredible, this
    among

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  51. grace Avatar

    and now what. yes. very much.

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  52. grace Avatar

    elizabeth, thank you. we rest there, like a cradle, we
    rock

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  53. tracy Avatar
    tracy

    Oh my. They linger and linger. When they go it’s a shock, even though you were expecting it. Take care honey.

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  54. grace Avatar

    today too, Thursday, the flat blank absence

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  55. grace Avatar

    he did.
    linger.
    There was really nothing at all left of him but WILL. and i look at that, Will…what IS it? really. What is it? the Will to remain????
    he was nothing.
    nothing but skin on bones and Will

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  56. faun bonewits Avatar

    He followed the moon,
    that night was filled
    with shooting stars too
    mosey on OCB
    your body will rest
    and then rejoin the stars.
    Thank you Grace
    for being
    the breeze that made his passing light
    like a sigh

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