my first freelance work day.  Same house.  different feel.  Today i sanded and oiled the front patio table.  It's round.  has an umbrella.  Quite large.  I did the underneath too.  Umbrella is out for the season.  It was nice.  It was also Work,  so,  what's the difference?  Looking at that.

The really great thing is that i can keep doing my laundry there.  But today when i tried to pull my bottom sheet out of the washer,  it ripped!….i was struck in the heart!  I love this sheet.  All my sheets i get from the Thrift Shop.  someone in town buys theses expensive sheets and then for whatever reason,  they end up at the Thrift Shop.  They are that thick almost rough cotton weave.  I LOVE them.  the feeling of them.  and this one,  a fitted bottom isn't worn soft…i'm thinking it had gotten caught on the hinge of the fold up camp cot i sleep on now since getting rid of the two giant futon mattresses because i thought i was moving….

Sheet is at least a Queen size and i fold it in half on the little cot and still it drapes loose.  Anyway….

 

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i thought i'd seam it together,  but then wasn't sure so i went to UTube…mending sheets and who showed up?,  but Mrs. Volfie!  Oh Yay!  My Goddess for everything!  Her page  Our Half Acre Homestead,  this video….Darn That Sheet.  You can go see her.  In it she has a really great new hairdo.   She's in Canada.  I Love her like i love my sheet.  She tells me to do things and then say "WHY?" and tells me why.  Something about that.

 

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i was going to patch it.  But she advised not.  A top sheet,  ok.  But a bottom sheet, not. Darn.  Like you would a sock.  So i began.  and i used some of Deb Lacativa's dirty thread as a gesture to the sheet,  of love and wanting to be forever.  I'll keep going tomorrow.

 

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all you need is some scraps.  some threads.  From them,  you can make Wonder.  Magic.

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28 responses to “what is it about freelance? how is it different?”

  1. johnson.mixedupmedia.margaret@gmail.com Avatar
    johnson.mixedupmedia.margaret@gmail.com

    Hi Grace, loving your new cloth. Love the darning too. When I was a kid (the youngest of 18), we all had to mend our own socks, so I learnt to sew and darn, at a very young age. Still mend everything, never throw anything out and use the threadbare cloth for making pictures, or cleaning rags. I really like the thread you are using. Happy doing!!….OXO

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  2. joanne Avatar
    joanne

    wow, Grace–I have been trying–with no success–to patch a bottom sheet. a “second” with, I guess, some thin spots. NOW!!! I will DARN. Perhaps even using Deb’s Magic Thread.
    I need to find a Thrift Store where rich people drop off their things. My thrift only has Polyester and I will not sleep on that stuff.
    Regarding Freelance. They tell you “what” and you have the freedom to say yes or no. And, perhaps you needed a change to something other than cleaning. I would have enjoyed working on that table. And finishing. Standing back to admire my work. Walking away.

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  3. Mo Crow Avatar
  4. Tina Avatar
    Tina

    Freelance … freedom to choose

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  5. jude Avatar

    seems more of a choice i think.

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  6. Martine Bos Avatar

    Love your boro sheet very much.
    I found lots of these heave linen sheets on the french brocantes over the last years. They have a lovely feel………

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  7. Mo Crow Avatar

    when I was 20 the man I was going out with at the time laughed that my ambition was to make a living out of my hobbies, nearly 30 years later I remember bristling when one of my gardening customers said it was so nice that we could enjoy our hobbies of art and music after exhibiting “An illuminated Book of Cats” and laughed at myself how this was my dream fulfilled after all!
    somehow in the intervening years I had relegated the gardening to work to make ends meet until I got very sick in 2004 and couldn’t garden or make art for a few months & realized then that the gardening & the art making hold equal importance in my life, I will be doing both until I’m dead!

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  8. grace Avatar

    In one household? Did your mother have 18 children??????
    or is this a blended family?
    i LOVE thinking about that….18 Children……!!!!
    How incredibly LUCKY your upbringing is…such Satisfaction
    in it, yes? I hope to be able to lure the California kids
    into some of this…i can, i think, by telling stories.
    I’ll tell them about Margaret, who was one of 18 children
    in Australia.
    love back…

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  9. grace Avatar

    the thrift shop here has mostly drifted down into fake fabrics
    too. But now and again. There is a College in town and
    the Cotton stuff comes from there. This particular sheet
    is just the greatest.
    and yes…no patch on a bottom sheet. Once she talked about
    that, it made perfect sense. and…Darning is Weaving…..
    The cleaning worked well for when it did. It was the most
    money for the least time. New Mexico pay scales are pretty
    grim. Even when i worked for the State….when i ran the
    Children and Families program at a minimum security prison.
    Because the cleaning here is with people who work at the College, “from” other parts of the world, the pay is really
    good. and i could set my own hours.
    I think the difference is only that these last two jobs…had
    been there so long, i’d become a part of LIFE there and
    very much depended upon. It is the dependency that was wearing on me and in this situation of Not Knowing.
    the freelance…it’s a luxury for them. If it doesn’t get done
    it’s ok, really. Which relieves me from feeling responsible
    for well being.
    I did. I loved it. The table looked so great and i
    Walked Away.
    I may or may not do all the chairs. But either way, it’s
    just ok.

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  10. grace Avatar

    it’s great tho scarey.

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  11. grace Avatar

    what you say here makes sense. But then…just recently
    on entering that 70’s realm, i want to really watch
    where the energy goes, where the physical labor goes, and
    i need to keep that physical labor for the Home Land

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  12. grace Avatar

    to choose. Choosing.

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  13. grace Avatar

    it’s not Critical

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  14. grace Avatar

    they are just so FINE….i can’t say enough,
    how they carry me, through the night…..

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  15. Mo Crow Avatar

    these are the golden years!

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  16. grace Avatar

    HA! golden…i grin. These are dirt years, Goat shit years,
    chicken feather years?, egg years. Grow food years. Walk
    path years, build strange things years, stitch cloth years, MAKE years, Listen years, Carry years,
    SEE years…Eyes…SEE.,,, LEARN years

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  17. Mo Crow Avatar

    sounds like golden years to me!

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  18. johnson.mixedupmedia.margaret@gmail.com Avatar
    johnson.mixedupmedia.margaret@gmail.com

    Not all 18 in the one household at once. My Dad and his first wife had 4 kids. My Dad and Mum had 14 together. Was a hard but happy childhood, I was very self sufficient by the time my Mother died. (my Dad died when I was 11 and my Mum when I was 19.)

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  19. Joy Avatar
    Joy

    I found Mrs. Volfie about a year or so ago. She’s practical and nobody’s fool. Doesn’t beat around the bush.

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  20. grace Avatar

    i found her blog but she last posted in 2013…do you know
    somewhere more current?
    She is really Great.

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  21. grace Avatar

    today i found a more recent UTube. Maybe that’s what she’s
    doing now…UTubes?

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  22. saskia Avatar

    freelance, the freedom to choose is what makes it feel different I think, as others have stated before me; but this is alo in a way, letting the circumstances determine how you feel; true freedom is a state of mind more than anything else…….I guess
    I look at my husband and realise he is truly free

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  23. grace Avatar

    i really wish i lived down the road from you. I would
    come late Sunday afternoons and sit on your veranda and if
    you felt like it, you will come out and sit with me and
    just tell me stories about those days. I could listen forever.
    Just small things…nothing fancy, just small memories
    of things and times. What a Treasure you have in your
    LifeTime….

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  24. grace Avatar

    i found out how to find more current UTubes

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  25. grace Avatar

    sort of…a state of mind…and there were years when how i made a
    living DID feel like freedom….COMPARED TO.
    but then, this is what you are saying…letting the circumstances determine.
    Still thinking about it.
    How is HE free?

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  26. Joy Avatar
    Joy

    I found her on Youtube, didn’t know she even had a blog. I guess I haven’t thought about whether her videos were recent or not, I’m still going through them. Oh well, wisdom never goes out of style.

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  27. grace Avatar

    i searched for the blog. and yes…never out of style,
    but for whatever reason, i want to know if someone is
    “still there” and if not, why? and where they Went.
    the ever curious mind.

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  28. Liz A Avatar

    Yes … absolutely golden!

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