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i am here,   to make the Post for today and phone rings  (or whatever it is,  the sound,  of this cell phone)  and it's a California # i answered and it was a survey.  with a very tired sounding young woman wanting to ask me questions about the upcoming Vote.  As it went along,  and i let it go along because of how tired she sounded,   it became clear that it was information seeking for candidate Mike Bloomberg  who i have paid ZERO attention to  so it became complex,  my answers to her,  too many words i had and she would say,  i understand,  but then give me the possible answers list again and i'd pick one.  Got more vague as it went on.  We got to racial identification and i went on a while that though i am caucasian,  my entire family is not,  and so i do not identify with caucasian  and she said I understand and went on to the next quesion of education and then to income level

and i spent the day,  just Jenny and i,  she bringing the chain saw to work on the downed trees  and that's a whole story there,  that i seem too tired to go near,  but we worked to cut and stack branches so i can burn them in the burn barrels,  which are a whole OTHEr thing i'm too tired to give words to       And at some point,  i remembered Mo's suggestion and gestured with my lips like the Native People do in New Mex to the Daughter Quilt hanging there ….i said it was suggested that i ask her how she might want it finished.   She kept cutting and then said,  laughing,  You never finish anything.   But followed that with

You know what i would Really Like?..She would like a Drawing.   She gestured…maybe 2ft wide x 3 ft long,  or more, she said.  She'd like a DRAWING   of all the things we know on this Hill,   the trees,  plants,  birds,  insects,  reptiles,  mammals,  she wants their life cycles included as in the old Natural History drawings of flora and fauna.   That's what i'd Really Like she said.

My kids are blunt.   They are Honest.   I raised them that way.  So.   Here it is.   She followed up,  a few minutes later with…

That's what i'd Really like.

and there we have it.

we found a lot of Turkey Tail.   There's more to this.  but enough for now.     

I really love her.   And slowly,  so so slowly,  she's letting me.

 

 

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23 responses to “Sun day there’s more, but later some time”

  1. Joanne Avatar
    Joanne

    My adult children want no cloth things——none. And they have no interest in drawings or painting. Daughters asks keto make baby quilts and embroidered monograms for her friends but not for her. Son has that small cloth I made only one with story. Do you remember that? With the tiny house and moon and a lizard.

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  2. Acey Avatar

    The last sentence of this post makes me hug myself with happiness.

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  3. Hassan Avatar

    I have a blog for biology study if you are interested you can click on link
    https://biology0346.blogspot.com/?m=1

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  4. Michelle Slater Avatar

    There should be a package for you at the post. A happy surprise I hope/

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  5. jude Avatar

    love is so much about letting

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  6. Liz A Avatar

    I’ve written and deleted comments several times now … need to think before I write (which I’m not good at)

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  7. Marti Avatar
    Marti

    It is good that Jenny told of what she would love and I can see how you could wonderfully draw this; maybe on the large canvas cloth so that it would be stronger than paper? I don’t know because I do not draw but it would be like a drawn tapestry?
    Can also see how the daughter quilt could become the great granddaughter quilt, a treasure for Emrie who will one day become the Guardian/Keeper of the Hill and all that entails…

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  8. Patty M Avatar

    Your drawing her life is a beautiful ask from a child.

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  9. Laura R Avatar
    Laura R

    I like that, Marti.

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  10. grace Forrest Avatar

    thank you, i will look

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  11. grace Forrest Avatar

    i never do. i blurt

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  12. grace Forrest Avatar

    I did go on Saturday. emailed you…Love

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  13. grace Forrest Avatar

    i don’t know right now. After reading ALL YOUR comments
    from yesterday and these, today, Monday, i am seeing
    so much more than initially

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  14. grace Forrest Avatar

    it surprised me…
    Jenny and “art” and i have a long long complicated
    history. For her to say this is so interesting

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  15. dee Avatar

    I feel the fatigue in that call. The complexities the pollsters fail to capture. How perfect Jenny wants a drawing! And one of living things. An artistic inventory! Perfect, as I said. I picture the last lines as a fist relaxing into an open palm.

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  16. Tina Avatar
    Tina

    A perfect ending …

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  17. Jacqui Avatar
    Jacqui

    And I am thinking about my relationship with my eldest daughter, soon to be 21. How our Mother/Daughter, woman to woman relationship moves like the tides. She has asked me to finish backing the quilt I started 5 years ago for her. How quilts can hold these tides and let them be what they are, a relationship bound with female family history, hopes, dreams, realizing we are all a quilt just trying to hold everything together as best we can. Love to you Grace

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  18. grace Forrest Avatar

    your words here mean so much….relaxing into an open palm
    just so RELEASING….
    THANK YOU!

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  19. grace Forrest Avatar

    really….a beginning, even more

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  20. grace Forrest Avatar

    Jacqui…now…these Days, it’s the woman to woman
    thing
    we have shifted…she in her 40s
    we find new ways
    Love back to you, so much

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